For executive fathers who are winning at work but feel like their family is getting what's left over.
Reclaim 10+ hours a week without sacrificing your career and finally be present for the moments that matter.
You lead a team, but youβre quietly wondering "How long can I keep this up?"
Monday you're locked in. By Wednesday you're running on fumes. Thursday you snap at your kid for something that didn't deserve it. Friday you're counting the hours until you can collapse.
Sunday night the dread creeps back in. Another week of white-knuckling through work while your family gets whatever's left over.
You've tried time management apps. You've read the productivity books. You've promised yourself you'll be more present.
But nothing sticks. Because the problem isn't discipline.
The problem is you're running systems built for a simpler life and your life outgrew them while you were too busy firefighting to notice.
From Chaos to Command
Reclaim 10+ hours a week and the headspace to actually use them.
The Hybrid Dad system helps you stop leaking time to decision fatigue, context-switching, and firefighting.
This isn't about better balance. It's about building the rhythms and systems to lead your life with intention.
Built for ambitious dads who:
- Lead companies or teams
- Raise families with purpose
- Refuse to choose between impact and intimacy
You don't need more hustle. You need an operating system that holds the weight of your life.
CurrentΒ Reality:
Waking up already behind. Snapping at your kids. Running on fumes by Wednesday.
Promising yourself you'll be more present - again.
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New RealityΒ (waiting for you):Β
Calm mornings. Weekly rhythms that hold. Energy left over for the people who matter.
A system that compounds clarity instead of stress.
The Cost of SuccessΒ Almost Broke Me
So I built a system to save it all.
Two years ago, I was a CEO leading over a hundred staff, a father of six, coaching other men on how to show up for their families.
From the outside, it looked like I had it figured out.
From the inside, I was drowning.
Not because I lacked discipline. Not because I didn't know what to do. I had frameworks. I had systems. I was literally teaching this stuff to other people.
The problem was simpler and harder to admit: the systems I'd built were designed for a simpler life. Fewer kids. Fewer responsibilities. An organisation that didn't need me to lead it into a new era of growth.
My life had scaled. My systems hadn't.
I was so busy firefighting that I never stepped back to notice. Nine months of running on fumes, and the stress I thought I was containing started leaking everywhere: my weight, my patience, my presence at home.
I wasn't failing because I was weak. I was failing because I was trying to run a seven-variable life on a two-variable system.
So I rebuilt. Not with more willpower. With better engineering.
Now I help men like you do the same.
HOW TO WORK WITH ME
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START HERE:Β The Hybrid Dad Engine (Free)
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The complete foundation for building your operating system - in 6 videos (~60 minutes)
You'll learn:
β The 3-tier weekly rhythm that protects your time
β How to stop context-switching between CEO and Dad
β The "10-hour audit" that reveals where your time is actually going
Plus: The Hybrid Dad Notion Life OS (Lite) to implement immediately.
Join 1,100+ high-performing fathers already inside.
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When You're Ready for More
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Some dads want to go further.
I offerΒ a self-paced course,Β a 12-week group accelerator,Β private 1:1 coaching for executives who want the full transformationΒ
Ben C
Communications Exec, Husband & Father of 3
βLike many, I found it immensely difficult to balance my professional commitments, family life, personal goals, and (lowest on my list) exercise. When I first came across Tobi, I couldn't believe all he didβand moreover, how healthy, cheerful, and positive he presented himself in every interaction. Since I've had the privilege of working with him for several months, my respect for him as only deepened. He's taught me how to focus, prioritize, and to train myself gently, day by day, to be disciplined. He has helped me become a better version of myself. Could not recommend him more highly to anyone in a situation like mine: busy, harried, and seeking order. Tobi's unlike anyone else I know.β
Troy H
Architect, Husband & Father of 2
"Finding balance between work, home and health has always been a battle and a cause of stress for me. Working with Tobi has been a game changer. I'm more relaxed, focused and healthier than I can ever remember being. Would absolutely recommend, in a flash!!!"
Preston B
Entrepreneur, Husband & Father of 4
"Before I started, my life was a constant dance of doing things too much or too little. Either caught up on work, or getting time with my wife, or my kids, but never more than one at a time.
My wife noticed the difference before I did. She told me: 'Your patience with the kids, your attitude, your motivation -Β I'm not sure what it is. But whatever Tobi is doing, it's working.'
Nowadays it's hard to imagine life before coaching."
Why the Advice Isn't Working
If you're a high-performer, CEO, founder or senior leader you've probably read the books. You know the concepts. You might even be coaching others on leadership or productivity.
And you're still white-knuckling it.
That's not a discipline problem. That's an engineering problem. The tools that got you here won't get you there.
The playbooks you've followed assume a simpler life than the one you're actually living. You are dealing with endless group messages for your kids' activities. Building a business in a rapidly changing digital world. Β A dual-income household where everything requires coordination.
Your life is structurally harder than the advice accounts for.
That's what the Hybrid Dad Engine fixes.
Podcast Appearances
CreatorΒ Alchemy
We discuss humble leadership, building systems over willpower and handling burnout without an off switch. Tobi shares how he leads at home and work, raises 7 kids, stays fit, and coaches high performers.
Present Fathers
We discuss what it means to be a Hybrid Dad. Tobi shares how he balances family, ambition, and mindset, plus the power of support networks and lessons learned from both wins and setbacks.
Front Row Dads
We dive into Tobiβs mental models for aligning passion, purpose and principles. He shares stories of resilience, fatherhood, endurance events and setting boundaries plus a powerful message every parent of kids aged 5 to 11 needs to hear.
Thinking Class
We discussΒ timeless insightsΒ on fatherhood and the impact of technology on kids. And how parenting deepens life, rather than distracting from it.
Startup Dad
We discuss honest lessons on fatherhood, presence, partnership and purpose. Plus raising six kids with intention, values and no shortcuts.
