Robin F

Ex-BBC Journalist, husband and father of 2

“I was looking for guidance, support, and a friend. Someone who understood the unique challenges good men and responsible men face in a changing world. Someone who could hold me accountable but who didn’t judge, who could provide constructive advice and insight. Someone who had a proven record of leading by example. Moreover, someone who had himself worked through tested methods for improving one’s productivity effectiveness and self discipline in our varied, multifaceted roles in life, as a parent, a husband, and as a professional  (in my case as a storyteller, videographer and journalist). I found that person in Tobi. Thank you Tobi for accompanying me on my journey towards becoming a stronger, healthier, fitter, happier and more disciplined version of myself. Comfortable being who I am, and comfortable believing in my potential  for change. I’m continuing on that journey, realising those dreams that until I met Tobi I had scarcely dared to dream.”

Preston B

Entrepreneur, Husband & Father of 4

Coaching with Tobi was one of the most impactful choices of my personal life and my career. Before I started, my life was a constant to-and-fro dance of doing things too much or too little. Either I was caught up on work, getting quality time with my wife, getting quality time with my kids, or growing personally, but never more than one or two of those things at a time. I felt stuck in a pattern of swinging back and forth between doing one thing too much and everything else too little.

I don’t think I had ever DM’d a random stranger on Twitter before, but Tobi sent a tweet about looking for busy dads who wanted to find balance in their life and it really resonated with me. As someone who never had a coach before, I was nervous about the process.

Our first meeting calmed my nerves and got me very excited. His approach wasn’t some pre-baked course to sell or 5 steps to fix XYZ, he wanted to know what my goals were, what problems I was facing, and what motivated me to change. Every piece of advice was catered to my situation and perspective. Tobi has wisdom on many topics, and a way with words that is persuasive without being abrasive.

What did I find?

Over the course of our relationship, our sessions were consistently the highlight of my week. It was time spent working on balancing life, rather than time spent working on one individual task. Not only that, but my wife noticed a major difference in my development and our relationship too, and quickly became a fan of Tobi just from seeing the results.

She once told me: “I feel like you’ve been in a really good place lately, more than normal. Your patience with the kids, attitude, motivation, I’m not sure what exactly it is. But whatever Tobi is doing, it’s working.” 😂

Nowadays it’s hard to imagine life before coaching. There are so many new habits with my kids, wife, work, and career that it’s difficult to keep track of. Some of these are daily or weekly, some yearly.

A key part of this journey was finding joy in fitness. This isn’t something I’ve ever felt good at or motivated to do before, but during my time with Tobi I got into the best shape I’ve ever been in. My eating habits, strength, and cardio were all transformed. I’m lifting more weight and running further than I ever have in my life.

Not only that, but I’ve found long-term practices that I enjoy. Fitness that I feel is easily maintainable over the course of my life, rather than a short-term experiment.

Who would I recommend it to?

If you value balance in life, feel like your actions don’t always align with your priorities, or feel stuck under insurmountable responsibilities, I can’t recommend Tobi highly enough.

If you’re early in your career or marriage and want to create balance before it becomes an issue, again, I cannot recommend him highly enough.

If you lack motivation, struggle with eating right, exercising, or sleeping enough, I’d recommend talking with Tobi.

To those who may say, “you’re just listing every topic there is,” I’d say: Balance is never about just one thing.

When was the last time you deeply regretted investing in your wellbeing?

Julian G

Software Executive, Husband, Father of 3

“Successful business leader, athlete, father of 6 - Tobi walks the walk in a way very few others can. Everything that attracted me to him when we first chatted played out over the subsequent months we spent together as his insights into work, family, relationships, physical health were all invaluable on the journey I was on. His coaching approach is validated by his unique life experience but comes with a dose of humility and openness that made me feel like I was always in control and getting to the places I needed to be. He's a thoughtful and inspiring person that had a meaningful impact in my life and delighted to now call a friend”

Harrison S

Entrepreneur, Husband & Father of 3 

“I've worked with Tobi for close to 3 years now, and I can't say enough good things about him and his programming. We talk at least once per week, and every time I do I feel more present and organized as I approach my life as an entrepreneur and dad of 3.

If you're a high performer who wants to maximize his focus, time, and discipline so you have time for the truly important stuff, you NEED to work with Tobi. He's been an absolute blessing in my life, and I know he will be for yours too.”

Niklas G

Surgeon, Husband, Father of 3

“Tobi's coaching helped me a lot to get myself more organized and less worried facing daily problems in business using the lessons on mental toughness.”

Jeremy S

Entrepreneur, Husband & Father of 2

As a creator, Dad and athlete myself I couldn’t figure out how he was getting it all done at such a high level. He’ll help you apply the principles underlying his systems to your life because the truth is having a job and family is no reason to give up on your health and fitness goals. They’re the reason to become your best self.”

Luke R

Business Owner & Pastor, Husband & Father of 2

"Tobi is the example of consistency. Tobi truly knows how to help people grow. He knows how to use tools to help you change but also understands that it is a mindset process too. Tobi has a servants heart and genuinely cares for his clients. I love working with Tobi! You will too."

Tom H

Software Engineer, Husband, Father of 2

“Tobi's lessons and leadership by example helped me grow as a father and leader. The Hybrid Dad framework is everything you need to become the leader your family as well as your community and business need. Highly recommend.”

Jon F

Bestselling author, Husband & Father of 2

“Working with Tobi, what struck me immediately was how aligned his life actually is. He runs a demanding business, trains early, shows up fully for his kids and leads his home with intention. Not as a performance, but as a standard.

Tobi does not talk about balance as a theory. He lives it through systems, discipline, and clear priorities. He understands the pressure ambitious dads are under. The constant pull between work, family and personal standards.

If you are a dad who wants to be effective at work and present at home, strong in body and grounded in who you are, Tobi will help you build the structure to make that real. This is not motivation. It is a way of living that lasts.”

Tyler E

Business Owner, Husband & Father of 2

"Since I started working with Tobi I've felt more focused on the "one thing" that really matters in my life and have a renewed energy that has spilt into all other areas. I would highly recommend working with Tobi as it is about as close to a "no-brainer" decision as you can get!"