Trade Chaos for Rhythm: Become the Dad, Husband, and Leader You’re Meant to Be

Imagine waking up with unbreakable energy, leading your day with crystal-clear intention. You crush your work goals, empower your team to thrive without you micromanaging every detail, and come home fully present, connecting deeply with your kids and spouse, building bonds that last a lifetime.

No more guilt, no more burnout, no more feeling like you’re falling short in the roles that matter most.

That’s not a dream. It’s the reality waiting for you in the Hybrid Dad Accelerator.

As a CEO, husband, and dad of 7, I’ve lived the overwhelm. Running a business while raising a big family meant constant juggling. Reacting to crises, giving leftovers to the people I love most, and questioning if I was building a legacy or just surviving. But everything changed when I developed the Hybrid Dad Engine: a proven framework that integrates systems, presence, and progress to align your ambition with your relationships.

Now, I’ve helped dozens of high-achieving dads just like you. Execs, entrepreneurs, leaders reclaim their lives. They wake energised, lead their teams with confidence, and create unbreakable family connections. And you can too.

The Hidden Cost of “Juggling It All”

You’re a high-performer. You lead teams, close deals, and drive results at work. But at home? The constant pull leaves you reactive, drained, and disconnected.

• Overwhelmed by spinning plates, where work bleeds into family time and leaves you short-tempered.
• Guilty about not showing up fully for your kids or spouse, even though you’re doing “everything.”
• Burned out from inconsistency, starting strong on habits, only to crash under the weight of perfectionism and demands.
• Questioning your legacy: Are you modeling the grounded, intentional man you want your family to see?

I’ve been there. I lead a high-impact person-centred business while being a devoted husband and dad to 7. But it wasn’t always smooth. I snapped under stress, overfunctioned at work, and felt the emotional distance growing. That changed when I forged the Hybrid Dad Engine: blending my real-life experience with certifications in Unbeatable Mind coaching and applying my learnings to dads I coach on a 1:1 basis.

The result? A life of rhythm where I lead with calm at home, empower my team to excel, and build a legacy my kids are proud of. And now, it’s your turn.

The Hybrid Dad Engine: Your Blueprint for Transformation

At the heart of the Accelerator is the Hybrid Dad Engine—a powerful framework that rewires your “operating system” for sustainable success. It’s not about adding more to your plate. It’s about designing a life where:

• Systems give you control: Wake with purpose, protect your time, and end days fulfilled without the chaos.
• Presence deepens connections: Show up grounded for your family, turning “leftovers” into meaningful moments that strengthen bonds and create joy.
• Progress builds legacy: Lead with confidence at work and home, empowering your team while modelling resilience for your kids, free from guilt and burnout.

In 12 weeks, you’ll achieve outcomes like:

• Unshakable energy and focus, so you handle high-stakes work days and family evenings with ease.
• Deeper, intentional relationships, where your spouse feels supported and your kids see a dad who’s truly there.
• Confident leadership that scales: Delegate without overfunctioning, inspire your team and align your ambition with your values.
• A serving mindset that turns stress into strength, perfectionism into progress and doubt into decisive action.

This isn’t theory, it’s battle-tested. As an Unbeatable Mind certified coach, executive with nearly 2 decades of managment experience and student of Jocko Willink’s Extreme Ownership and Dichotomy of Leadership certifications, I’ve applied these principles to my own life: balancing CEO responsibilities, a thriving marriage, and fatherhood to 7 kids. The Engine has transformed dads from overwhelmed reactors to intentional leaders.

Don’t just take my word, here’s what Tyler Vawser, VP at a high-growth EdTech company and dad of 4, had to say:

“I’ve been working with Tobi over the last 12 to 18 months and he’s really helped me transform in how I think about what it looks like to go to the next level as a leader, a father, and a husband. What I didn’t realize before was that reaching the next level isn’t just about working harder—it’s about shifting your thinking, habits, and self-narrative to operate sustainably. Tobi helped me evolve from a hard worker to a strategic thinker, empowering my team without overfunctioning. At home, his guidance on intentional presence has deepened my relationships with my wife and kids. It’s still a process, but I can’t imagine getting here without him.”

What’s Inside the Hybrid Dad Accelerator

Over 12 weeks, you’ll experience a guided transformation, focusing on real outcomes that stick:

• Foundation Weeks: Build self-awareness and unbreakable habits, ending reactive patterns and reclaiming your energy.
• Momentum Weeks: Gain perspective and resilience, turning chaos into controlled rhythm for work and home.
• Reset Weeks: Master emotions and presence, fostering deeper family connections and grounded leadership.
• Vision Weeks: Forge your identity and decisions, aligning ambition with legacy through bold, balanced action.
• Mastery Weeks: Integrate everything into your custom OS, sustaining a serving mindset that empowers your team and family long-term.

Plus, built-in leadership mastery: Self-leadership for family harmony, and professional tools to delegate, prioritise, and inspire your team, drawing from proven principles without the overwhelm.

All delivered through short, actionable videos (new ones every week), worksheets for immediate wins, and optional group calls for accountability.

Your Investment: $395 for Lifelong Transformation

At just $395, this is a no-brainer, less than a family dinner out each month, for outcomes that change everything. You’re not buying a course; you’re investing in a life where you thrive as dad, husband and leader.

Enrol today and get these bonuses:

• Hybrid Dad Engine Training: My step-by-step guide to your new OS (value: $497).
• Private Group Coaching: (value: $997).
• 1:1 Support: (value: $497).
• Notion Life OS: (value: $49).

Limited spots - cohort starts soon. Secure yours now.

If you’re ready to wake up energised, connect deeply and lead confidently without the guilt, this is your path.

Let’s build the rhythm you deserve.